How to make homemade sex toys? An illustrated guide

In this guide, I'll show you how to make your own homemade sex toy simply, with accessible, economical, and safe ideas . Many people try it: sometimes out of curiosity, sometimes to avoid spending money, or just for the pleasure of creating an intimate toy that reflects their personality.

And believe me, it's also a very discreet and fun way to explore your body differently. Transforming an ordinary object into a vibrator may seem surprising at first... but once you dare, you quickly realize how exciting it is.

Of course, caution is advised: a little protection and common sense are all it takes to avoid unpleasant surprises. With that, you can fully enjoy your homemade sex toy with complete peace of mind.

Simple ideas for creating a homemade sex toy using everyday objects

No need for complicated tools or advanced DIY skills: many everyday objects can already serve as homemade sex toys. Some vibrate , others massage , still others mimic penetration… and each can provide different sensations.

The first time, the element of surprise is often present 😍. Things we use every day can trigger unexpected pleasures! And it's precisely in these little twists and turns that we discover new ways to give ourselves pleasure...

The lemon

A lemon vibrator might seem unlikely 🍋, but its small size and unique shape make it a top choice for playful encounters. Its oval shape provides broad, enveloping pressure, while its pointed yet rounded tip allows for more precise clitoral stimulation. With a condom and a little lube, it transforms into a surprisingly firm and easy-to-use stimulator.

How to do it:

• Choose a firm, smooth lemon without blemishes.
• Wash it thoroughly and then cover it with a condom.
• Add lubricant to the condom for added comfort.
• Use the rounded part to massage the entire vulva.
• Next, try the rounded pointed end to directly stimulate the clitoris.

⚠️ Essential precautions:

1. Do not use without a condom (the acidity could irritate the skin).
2. Do not insert into the vagina or anus.
3. Do not use a damaged, cracked or overly soft lemon.
4. Do not prolong use if discomfort or irritation occurs.

The electric toothbrush

You've probably already noticed that the handle of an electric toothbrush vibrates with surprising intensity ⚡. Used as a homemade sex toy, it can provide targeted stimulation and sensations similar to those of a mini vibrator.

How to do it:

1. Remove the brush head to leave only the handle, which is safer and more pleasant to the touch.
2. Clean the handle thoroughly, then cover it with a condom for optimal protection.
3. Turn on the brush and test the vibration in your hand to gauge the intensity.
4. Then place it on the clitoris or labia, without ever inserting it, varying the pressure and angle.
5. If your brush has multiple speeds, start with the gentlest setting before gradually increasing the speed.

⚠️ Essential precautions:

• Do not insert the electric brush into the vagina or anus.
• Do not use if the device is plugged into mains power.
• Do not neglect cleaning before and after each use.
• Avoid prolonged contact if the device is hot.

The shower head

It's probably the most well-known homemade sex toy… and for good reason: the power of water directed on sensitive areas provides a unique stimulation , both gentle and intense 💦. Many women tell me that it was with this toy that they discovered their first orgasms .

How to do it:

1. Choose a fine and precise jet, often more effective than a wide jet.
2. Adjust the water temperature so that it is pleasant, neither too hot nor too cold.
3. Bring the jet close to the clitoris without direct contact, let the water stimulate with pulsations.
4. Vary the distance and angle to modulate the intensity of the sensations.
5. Take your time: the climb is often gradual but very intense.

⚠️ Essential precautions:

• Do not use water that is too hot, as it could irritate the skin.
• Do not direct the stream inside the vagina (risk of infection or imbalance).
• Do not prolong exposure if the area becomes sensitive or numb.
• Avoid sharing the shower head without cleaning it first.

The smooth utensil handle

Among the simplest homemade sex toys, smooth kitchen utensils come out on top 🍴. A well-polished wooden, metal, or silicone spatula or spoon handle can become a surprising penetration tool, as long as it is chosen carefully.

How to do it:

1. Choose a utensil with a smooth handle, without any roughness or cracks.
2. Clean it thoroughly with warm water and mild soap.
3. Cover the handle with a condom for maximum protection and comfort.
4. Apply lubricant to facilitate penetration.
5. Insert it gently, without forcing it, adjusting the depth according to your sensations.

⚠️ Essential precautions:

• Do not use rough, damaged or porous sleeves (risk of micro-cuts).
• Do not insert an untreated raw wood handle.
• Don't forget to cover with a condom, even for occasional use.
• Do not share the item without personal protection.

The phone is in vibration mode

When it comes to homemade sex toys, the phone is often the most accessible option 📱. Its vibration function , originally designed for calls, can become a very effective source of external stimulation . Many are surprised by the intensity that a simple smartphone placed in the right spot can provide.

How to do it:

1. Activate continuous vibration mode (via an app, timer, or silent alarm).
2. Slip the phone into a case or a thin cloth for added comfort.
3. Place it on the clitoris or between the thighs, adjusting the pressure.
4. Experiment with different positions (lying on your stomach, sitting, legs together).
5. Let the vibration do its work and adjust according to your sensations.

⚠️ Essential precautions:

• Do not insert the phone into the vagina or anus.
• Do not use if the device is charging (electrical hazard).
• Do not expose the phone to water or moisture.
• Avoid prolonged use which could cause the device to overheat.

The cucumber or the courgette

It's probably the cliché of a homemade sex toy… and yet, used correctly, a cucumber can offer simple and effective penetration 🥒. Its straight shape and firmness make it an easy object to handle , provided it's prepared properly.

How to do it:

1. Choose a cucumber that is smooth, firm, and of a size that suits your comfort.
2. Wash it thoroughly in warm water with mild soap.
3. Cover it with a condom to avoid any irritating friction.
4. Apply lubricant to facilitate penetration.
5. Insert it gently, controlling the depth according to your sensations.

⚠️ Essential precautions:

• Do not use a cucumber that is crooked, too large, or has rough edges.
• Do not insert without protection (condom strongly recommended).
• Do not store the vegetable after use: it is for single use only.
• Avoid any overly forceful penetration to prevent injury.

The carrot

Another classic homemade sex toy: the carrot 🥕. Its firm texture and tapered shape make it easy to insert , as long as it's properly prepared. Many women tell me they appreciate its gradual thinness , which allows for gentle, controlled penetration .

How to do it:

1. Choose a carrot that is smooth, straight, and of a size that suits your comfort.
2. Peel it or cover it with a condom to avoid any irritating friction.
3. Wash it thoroughly before use.
4. Add a generous amount of lubricant along the entire length.
5. Introduce it gradually, allowing your body to get used to it.

⚠️ Essential precautions:

• Do not use a bent, damaged or cracked carrot.
• Do not insert without protection (condom strongly recommended).
• Do not reuse: this is a single-use item.
• Avoid any penetration that is too rapid or too deep.

The eggplant

With its generous size and firm texture , the eggplant can appeal to those who enjoy more intense flavors 🍆. But be warned: this vegetable requires a little more care, as its size isn't always suitable for everyone.

How to do it:

1. Choose a straight eggplant, small or medium in size, with a smooth skin.
2. Wash it thoroughly, then cover it with a condom.
3. Apply lubricant generously over the entire surface.
4. Insert it gently, starting with the thinnest part.
5. Adjust the depth according to your comfort, without ever forcing it.

⚠️ Essential precautions:

• Do not use an eggplant that is too large (risk of injury).
• Do not insert without protection (condom essential).
• Do not reuse after use: single-use item.
• Do not force it if you feel any discomfort or pain.

The vibrating massage pillow or device

If you're looking for broad, enveloping external stimulation , a vibrating pillow or massager can perfectly serve as a homemade sex toy 😌. Many appreciate the diffusion of vibrations , less targeted than a classic vibrator, but very pleasant for the entire pelvic area.

How to do it:

1. Place a soft cloth or clean cover between you and the device for added comfort.
2. Turn it on and test the different modes or intensities in your hand.
3. Position it against the clitoris, the labia or even under the pelvis while lying down.
4. Vary the pressure, angle, and duration to explore the sensations.
5. Take the time to enjoy the diffuse vibrations, which are often more gradual.

⚠️ Essential precautions:

• Do not use directly on the skin if the surface is rough or hot.
• Do not use a mains-powered appliance in a humid environment.
• Don't forget to clean the cover or protective fabric after use.
• Avoid prolonged exposure if the area becomes numb.

DIY homemade sex toys: going further with creativity

While repurposing everyday objects might seem surprising, some prefer to create a more sophisticated homemade sex toy, designed to last 🎨. DIY intimacy allows you to choose the materials , shape , and texture to create a truly personalized object. Many see it as a playful way to combine creativity and pleasure , like a little secret project just for themselves. And believe me… the satisfaction of using something you've crafted yourself makes the experience even more exciting.

Medical silicone

Medical-grade silicone is the go-to material for high-end sex toys, and for good reason: it's soft , flexible , hygienic , and perfectly safe for the body 🧪. Making your own silicone sex toy guarantees a durable , comfortable object tailored to your desires .

How to do it:

1. Obtain liquid medical silicone, available in a specialized molding kit.
2. Prepare a mold of the desired shape (cylinder, reliefs, etc.).
3. Pour the silicone into the mold following the manufacturer's instructions.
4. Allow to dry for the necessary time for the material to become flexible and stable.
5. Clean the sex toy before first use, then lubricate it if necessary.

⚠️ Essential precautions:

• Do not use non-medical grade silicone (some contain harmful additives).
• Do not remove from the mold too soon: the material must be perfectly dry.
• Do not neglect cleaning before and after each use.
• Avoid using the sex toy if you notice a crack or irregularity.

Modeling plaster

Plaster is an easy-to-find and moldable material, making it a tempting option for making a homemade sex toy 🧱. But used raw, it is too porous and abrasive for intimate contact: it must therefore always be covered with a smooth protective coating , such as latex or silicone.

How to do it:

1. Prepare a mold in the shape you want to obtain.
2. Mix the plaster and pour it into the mold, then let it harden completely.
3. Once dry, lightly sand it to remove any roughness.
4. Cover it completely with a protective coating (silicone, medical latex, thick condom).
5. Clean the sex toy thoroughly before use, then add lubricant.

⚠️ Essential precautions:

• Do not use raw plaster in direct contact with the body.
• Do not use a coating unsuitable for intimate contact.
• Do not insert if the surface is not perfectly smooth.
• Do not reuse if the coating is damaged.

Plasticine

Plastiline is a non-toxic , flexible , and reusable modeling clay. It allows you to easily create a custom homemade sex toy by experimenting with different shapes and textures 🎭. Its malleable texture makes it ideal for a simple DIY project, as long as it is used with appropriate protective equipment.

How to do it:

1. Mold the plasticine to give it the shape you want (straight, curved, with reliefs).
2. Let it rest so that it retains its shape.
3. Always cover it with a condom to isolate it from direct contact with the body.
4. Apply lubricant to the condom for added comfort.
5. Experiment with different shapes and adjust your creations according to your feelings.

⚠️ Essential precautions:

• Do not use plastiline directly on intimate skin.
• Do not insert without protection (condom essential).
• Do not keep the same shape for too long (it may get damaged).
• Do not share without changing your protection.

Essential precautions for a safe homemade sex toy

When making a homemade sex toy, the golden rule is safety 🛡️. It all starts with hygiene : each item must be washed before and after use, with warm water and mild soap. A condom is always recommended, as it protects the mucous membrane and makes cleaning easier.

Furthermore, an American study shows that 79.9% of women surveyed use a sex toy, but only 14% regularly use a condom when sharing it. This highlights how much hygiene practices can vary, and why it is essential to remain vigilant.

In terms of materials, some should be absolutely avoided: raw wood, glass not designed for intimate use, rusty metal, low-grade plastic, or any porous material that traps bacteria and impurities. It's best to stick to medical-grade silicone , smooth plastic , or items coated with a reliable protective layer .

Finally, keep in mind a few simple safety rules :

• Always listen to your body and stop if you feel any discomfort.
• Never force penetration.
• Do not use any electrically powered devices near water.
• Consider that a homemade sex toy is generally for single use.

With these simple precautions, you can enjoy your DIY explorations without worry and fully savor the experience 😍.

Safe alternatives to homemade sex toys

Making your own sex toy at home is exciting , creative , and often surprising . But it's also important to keep in mind that there's a simpler and perfectly safe alternative: commercially available sex toys 🛒. They're designed to be body-friendly, made from safe materials , and easy to clean .

Advantages of commercially available sex toys:

• Made from medical-grade silicone or body-safe materials.
• Shapes and intensities designed to maximize pleasure.
• Easy to clean and maintain.
• Durable and resistant to regular use.
• Available for all tastes: vibrators, clitoral stimulators, plugs, sex toys for couples…

Many people start by trying DIY solutions, then end up buying a specialized sex toy for more comfort and peace of mind. And between us… it's not necessarily one or the other: some people like to keep their little homemade creations for fun, while also having an “official” sex toy as a reliable option.

Exploring homemade sex toys is first and foremost a way to get to know yourself better , to play with your curiosity , and to allow yourself new sensations . The important thing isn't so much the object itself, but the freedom to listen to your body and discover yourself in a new way . Whether it's with a DIY creation or an accessory designed for intimacy, pleasure remains a personal , intimate , and unique adventure ✨.